This week I have had the occasion to review my life, where I am, where do I want to be and what will be my lasting legacy. This type of introspection comes not only from my normal review of myself, but from the unfortunate passing of Kim's aunt.
I have been accused at various times in my life with being not as sensitive about the feelings of others I could be. This may be true, but as this is a period of mourning, I am very hesitant and cognizant of treading on the grief of others, the most personal of emotional journeys.
I remember Barbara as someone who was always ready with a smile and an uplifting story for those she met. Even someone such as myself, someone who was on the periphery of her life, was always welcomed with good humor and left me feeling better for having talked with her. This is even more remarkable as one of those times was when I backed into her car in my driveway! She was able to laugh it off and protect my feelings as if I were somehow not to blame for bumping her very apparent vehicle almost directly behind mine. There wasn't much damage and very little monetary loss, but just the ability to handle this in the manner she did, made her a special person.
Our condolences go out to her family and whatever form the next part of Barbara's journey may be, I know it will be full of laughs, stories and smiles!
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